Wednesday, October 09, 2024

I've always loved gravy

Milk gravy, that is.  Oh, I like the kind of gravy that comes with a beef roast too, but not as much as milk gravy.  I'll bet that's one of the first things my mother fed me; that's just a guess, but she did love to feed people, and I do love to eat.

Mother often told me the story about how worried she was that I didn't eat enough vegetables when I was a baby, so she asked my doctor what to do.  He told her, "We don't care what she eats, just so she eats!"

She said that so many times, you'd have thought it came out of the mouth of Jesus.  From that time on, I was never forced to eat anything I didn't like.  It worked pretty well for me, though, because by the time I was in my teens, I liked almost any kind of food you could name.  

We had milk gravy often; all it needs is bacon grease, flour, and milk.  In those days every woman had a can of bacon grease sitting on her stove, and it was used for many things.  Mother made full meals, but if there was bread and gravy, that's all I wanted, and that was just fine with my parents.  

Another story Mother told me was that when I was a toddler, she went out to get clothes off the line after supper and took me out with her.  At some point she looked around to make sure I was still with her and saw me sitting on the ground with our dog, Cookie, helping her eat the leftover gravy my mom had put in her bowl.

Then there was the time my parents were the telephone operators in Villisca, Iowa.  I remember this very well.  I was probably four or five years old.  My parents and I got done eating our supper. I went outside when we were done eating, and the neighbor kids met me over at the door.  One of them said, "We had pork chops for supper!"

Thinking I'd go one better than that, I proudly said, "We had bread and gravy!"  My mom was listening and came running to the door to tell those kids every single thing that she had cooked for supper, afraid that the kids would tell their parents and they'd think ill of us for having such a pitiful supper.  She was a great cook, and proud of that fact, but I really doubt those little kids would have told their parents what I said.  

Cliff and I had gravy a couple days ago because we are still getting tomatoes from the garden.  My Arkansas friend Betty at Galla Creek mentioned putting gravy on tomatoes in her blog, and I just had to try it; turns out Cliff and I both liked it.  This morning there was still about half a cup of gravy in the refrigerator, so I sliced a smallish tomato, heated the gravy in the microwave, and poured it over that tomato.  I also had a small amount of sweet potatoes I'd cooked yesterday, and that was the rest of my breakfast.  

Sweet potatoes, gravy, and tomato.  Breakfast of champions! 

I often think how great it was that Mother told me stories, not only about myself when I was small, but also stories about how she lived when she was young.  I don't think most kids heard much about how people lived "in the olden days".

By the way, if you'd like to hear some of her stories, you'll find many of them HERE.


19 comments:

  1. Anonymous10:53 AM

    Yes, to gravy. Fried potatoes were a staple and there was always gravy. I also loved fried potatoes with coleslaw on top.

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    1. Yes! Seems like lots of folks fried potatoes back then. I think potatoes were cheap to buy; also, many people had gardens and planted potatoes. Gardens made the poor folks a lot of good, healthy food.

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  2. I loved cream gravy and looked forward to when we got it, mostly for holiday meals. Alas I have recently become lactose intolerant and so I have to go with the watered kind or take a magic pill to help me digest the lactose. However I've learned I'm not so pleasant to be around the next day.... odor wise.

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    1. My daughter is lactose intolerant too. Those magic pills are supposed to make it more pleasant the next day.

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  3. Anonymous1:36 PM

    Real bacon was a rarity when I was growing up. My father summarily refused to eat pork of any kind. So any gravy we had was also a rarity...usually on Thanksgiving and Christmas. Mom made it from the pan drippings of the turkey for the mashed potatoes. That's probably why I don't much care for it. Rebecca in SW MO

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    1. Oh yes, I love turkey gravy, and use the giblets in it, too.

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  4. I'm not a fan of gravy except in very specific instances. (Thanksgiving with turkey and dressing) It sounds like it's very versatile!

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    1. I think milk gravy started out as poor people's food.

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  5. Bettina3:58 PM

    The only milk gravy I learned to make from my mother-in-law used what was on the bottom of the frying pan when cooking smoked pork chops... served on the chops and mashed potatoes. We all love it... except smoked pork chops don't taste the same now-a-days.. Maybe NYS pork chops are not the same as Missouri ones??

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    1. When I was a kid, almost the only meat we ever had was chicken, because my mom always kept chickens until I was 12 years old and we moved to Kansas City. She made milk gravy from the chicken grease in the skillet and we had that with mashed potatoes.

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    2. Bettina11:14 AM

      We ate chicken too... but just the the old ones that stopped laying. My Mother could turn that old lady into something tender and flavorful!!

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  6. Back during my childhood, we were very poor. So, sometimes that's all we had for supper, but it was ALWAYS GOOD. Oh, what I'd give to have a meal of my mama's milk gravy and homemade biscuits now ! I can make biscuits and gravy, but it's never as good to me as my mama's.

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    1. I'm always wishing I could make fried chicken that tasted like my mom's.

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  7. Anonymous10:58 AM

    That sliced tomatoes and white milk gravy was a Cotton Powell favorite. My parents did not make me eat anything I didn’t want, but we were always hungry and ate most everything. Daddy liked liver, but I didn’t much. Well I like fried chicken livers. I never made my kids clean their plate either.But Larry tended to try this, especially if we were eating out. I think it’s cruel really..

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    1. I grew up poor, but I didn't really know we were poor until I was in the fourth or fifth grade and asked my mom, "Are we rich?" My mother laughed and laughed, then told me we had everything we needed, but we were anything but rich.

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  8. I used to clean a house (not that long ago) that had a permanent can of bacon grease on the stove. My husband said his mom used to put bacon grease on all the vegetables. Have you ever made "chocolate gravy?" Had it once over biscuits at a church breakfast. It was wonderful.

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    1. I have heard of chocolate gravy, and I do love chocolate. But for some reason, chocolate gravy doesn't sound good to me.

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  9. I love gravy, but don’t make it often anymore. I’m the only one who eats it. I enjoy your stories of when you were young the best.

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