Monday, January 04, 2021

The search for a song

They tell me that when a person reaches a certain stage of dementia, he can remember his childhood very clearly, but can't tell you what happened yesterday.  

The older I get, the more I think about my childhood. So I guess I'm preparing myself for dementia.  Many of my memories are of church, since my parents went faithfully to church twice on Sunday and again on Wednesday night, not to mention the Gospel Meetings (revivals) they had about once a year.  When we lived in Iowa, I remember Mother taking me out for a spanking at church when I was very young.  I was kicking at the pew with the side of my foot and refused to stop when she told me to.  I must have been pretty small, because she picked me up and carried me out as I yelled, "I'll be good, I'll be good!"  

My favorite part of Church was the singing.  Even now, when I sit down in a pew at either of the churches I attend, you will see me pick up a bulletin and scan it to see if any of my favorite hymns are listed for that day.

The Church of Christ didn't have instruments in those days, and most congregations still don't.  A Cappella was what you got.  Everyone sang their parts.  Some congregations held singing schools that taught us how to read shaped notes, so most anyone who could carry a tune was able to sing whichever part fit their voices... soprano, alto, tenor, or bass... even if they didn't read notes any other way.  I also learned a lot about singing alto just riding in the car with my parents; Mother would help me with my part and we'd sing hymns as we traveled.

When we lived in North Missouri, the singing wasn't very impressive, because most of the congregations in small towns didn't have a lot of people attending.  But when we had our first-Sunday singings, people who loved to sing would gather from several congregations.  That was when I really learned to appreciate A Cappella singing.  We sounded amazing, I thought, and I sang at the top of my lungs.  The Mormon Tabernacle Choir had nothing on us!  I'd never heard of them at the time, but if I had, I would have thought we were just as talented as they were.

A few days ago in my daily Bible reading I was reading the Psalm for that day, Psalm 148, which begins like this:

148 Praise ye the Lord. Praise ye the Lord from the heavens: praise him in the heights.Praise ye him, all his angels: praise ye him, all his hosts.Praise ye him, sun and moon: praise him, all ye stars of light.Praise him, ye heavens of heavens, and ye waters that be above the heavens.

It reminded me of a song we used to sing at church that surely must have been based on this Psalm, a song I had not heard since the fifties, I'm sure.  I've attended several different denominational churches throughout my life, but I'm positive none of them sang that song.  I felt compelled to hear it.  It used to be so much fun to hear, and sing, the different parts!  I looked on Youtube and found a lot of videos with the right words, but the wrong melody.  I needed to hear just like I remembered.  I scrolled down, down, down. 

 The very last video was the version I was looking for.

I would rather have heard a congregation singing it, but this was the next-best thing, since the male harmonies, at least, were on the tape or CD the man was singing with.  I left him a comment on the video to thank him.


Trust me, it sounds better with some women singing soprano or alto.  But this video made my day anyhow.

Sunday, January 03, 2021

Maybe some readers can help me out on a project

When I get up in the morning, usually at three or four o'clock, there are several things I do, not in any certain order.  My first priority used to be coffee.  My stomach started giving me a fit a year or so ago, so I quit drinking the stuff.  I'm still taking one omeprazole daily, so the first thing out of bed I take that.  After the pill, I'm supposed to wait 20 to 30 minutes and eat something.  If I'm hungry, I'll eat some breakfast, which I spread out over three hours.  If I don't want to eat anything substantial at that time, I'll eat 3 or 4 saltine crackers.  Then I'll have a cup of tea.  

This is all leading to something that matters, so stick with me here.  

I go to my library's website and from there, to the Kansas City Star, which is free to me that way, although a little tiresome to read when one only has 5G Internet... but what's time to a cheapskate?  Usually after that I read the One-Year Bible's daily portion and take time to pray for those who are hurting.  And I pray for forgiveness for my wrongs, because boy, do I need it!  

Lately I've been going ahead and doing a blog entry before Cliff gets up.  Considering it's all drivel, you'd be surprised how long it takes me to do one blog entry.  It's always an hour at least, and if I'm adding pictures or links, it's longer.  Today, following my prayer time, I had an idea.  Because of the timing, I'd like to think the idea was God-given, but I wouldn't swear to that.  I don't want to attribute something to him that I might make a mess of.  It would make him look bad.

Out of nowhere I thought about my left-hand writing, and how much I'm improving when I use the skill often.  I usually write down recipes, or something from the Bible.  That isn't doing the world a bit of good, but it is starting to feel more natural as I write with my left hand.  

I need a pen pal!  So I googled pen pals and found many sites; there are people all over the world wanting pen pals.  But I was reminded how much spam and scamming there is on the Internet, and how you don't really know who you're dealing with online.

I would rather write to someone I know is real.  What if I called a nursing home and asked for some people who would enjoy getting letters?  That would work, but then I wondered if any of the readers of my blog might know someone personally who would like to get some mail.  I like that idea best of all.

Maybe you know someone who doesn't have many relatives or friends left on this earth, someone who thinks he or she is totally forgotten.  If you know someone like that who never gets any mail, submit their name and address to me and I'll send them a letter.  Please don't do this in the comments:  My email address is mosie1944@gmail.com, and that's where you can tell me a little about the person and tell me the name and address.  

Not all lonely folks live in a nursing home, so if you have anyone who would like me to write to them, let me know.  If I get swarmed with emails, I'm not sure how I'll handle it.  I can't even promise I'll get around to writing to every single one.  I'm still pretty slow at writing with my left hand.   

Now I'll make a true confession:  My mom was in a nursing home a hundred miles away for several years, and she would have loved getting letters from me; all I ever sent her was a card once in a while, on special occasions.  She loved to get letters, and answered them as long as she was able.  I should have written to her at least once a week, but the thought never entered my head.  Nothing can make up for that, but maybe I can brighten someone's day who perhaps has thoughtless children who love her (or him) but tend to put them on the back burner.

If I could live my life over, I would be nicer to my mother.

Sincerely,

Donna