Saturday, September 10, 2011

Remembering Linda C. Lee; she lived a joyful, fulfilled life.

After reading the comments on previous tributes I have done, I couldn't possibly miss the opportunity of doing another one.  I randomly picked a World Trade Center victim, began what I figured would be a hopeless search for information, and struck gold.  For more tributes of the 9/11 victims, go to Project 2,996.


First of all, I found a tribute with her picture on the World Trade Center Memorial site.  Ms. Lee, age 34, was a senior associate at a financial services firm.  On September 11, 2,001, she just happened to be attending a technology conference at the trade center.    


She listened with her fullest attention," said Tiffany Norwood, her friend since kindergarten. "She wanted to know exactly what was going on in your life. 
Ms. Lee had a love of adventure, Ms. Norwood said. In high school, the two girls would sneak off from their homes in Camp Springs, Md., to New York for the weekend. As young women, they would sweet talk New York cabbies into letting them drive the taxi. 
"She had an amazing ability to make and nurture friendships," said Stacey Harris, another close friend. "She made you feel like you were her only friend." 

I found the following words left by friends at her online obituary site: 
"I met Linda on a consulting assignment at Morgan Stanley. She had a good heart and she was very giving. Working with her was challenging. I found her to be very bright, patient, tolerant and understanding. I was at Morgan Stanley when she left the firm to further her career. I am stunned and so very saddened by this. Why God took such a wonderful person from us is something I will never understand." 

"Linda was an exceptional person with a generosity of spirit that was beyond words. I was always in awe of the way she approached life. She was excited to be alive and be in New York City and see and do and just experience. I think we ate in every restaurant in the East Village.
Linda saw the beauty and joy in things that most people would never notice. And when you were around her, you couldn’t help but see what she saw. And she always saw the good in people, unless of course, those people insulted her friends." 



I was glad to see that there is a memorial scholarship in her name.

7 comments:

  1. What a wonderful tribute! So many important and happy lives cut short.She sounds like a very talented woman, such a loss.

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  2. This is a wonderful tribute. Thank you for posting.

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  3. Anonymous12:03 AM

    May she Rest in Peace with the Lord's blessing and protection. God bless her.
    She sounds like she was a wonderful woman.

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  4. Anonymous4:15 PM

    Lesser known fact, Linda and her parents were estranged from her sibling brother as they had chosen not remain active in his life after he came out as a member of the LGBT community. In fact due to the loss of contact he was unaware for at least a year that his sister had perished on 9/11 as he knew she did not work in or near the towers nor knew she had in fact only been there on that fateful day to attend the conference at Windows on The world. One day a private investigator, hired by a friend of Linda's, eventually tracked him down to tell him the news. At first he was shocked and then told me he has mixed feelings about her passing. Obviously, sad someone he once knew had lost ler life so young and tragically but on the other had was the guilt of feeling neutral about it based on the family's rejection of him. In the years since he has made peace with that and does make the occasional visit to her memorial bench in Central Park.

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    1. Thank you so much for the additional information. That makes it even a sadder story. I believe people are born gay, and have no choice in the matter.

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    2. Anonymous12:36 PM

      The comment about Linda’s brothet is not true. He was at Linda’s service. I am the Stacey cited in the article above and helped arrange the service. It wasn’t her choice to be estranged from him. I can’t speak to what transpired with the parents.

      What I remember about her brother in my brief meeting with him is that he was flat with no affect. Totally disengaged.

      Linda cared about those less fortunate and supported many causes, including music and other arts programs for inner city kids.
      She was the most decent person I knew.

      So please don’t spread untruths. There is a great deal of discrimination against the LGBTG+ community. But not from Linda.

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    3. I will leave your comment here so anyone reading the comment section can see both sides of the story

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