Sunday, May 04, 2014

I'm a slacker

I just can't seem to get back into regular blogging lately.  I know part of it is that I'm baby-sitting four days a week.  I take pictures of the baby and put entries in her private blog, and then neglect this one.  When she is here, she has top priority.  We take her shopping with us sometimes, but I forget half the stuff I was supposed to buy.  Young mothers don't realize how much of their attention a small child demands, not by misbehaving, but just by being a defenseless child.  When Cliff and I talked about babysitting this baby, I told him, "This might be our last shot at spending this much time with a baby, and I intend to do it right.  When she is here, she will be my number one priority.  If I need to get rid of the cows or chickens, I will.  If I need to stop gardening, I will do it."  

So far, I haven't given up anything intentionally, although the truth is that I lost a beautiful heifer last fall due to bloat, and a newborn calf that was dead when I found it.  I'm sure at least one of these deaths would have been prevented had my attention not been on a tiny baby, because had either of them been found in time I imagine they would have survived.  That is my fault, not the baby's.  I'm the one who keeps track of the cows.  I should have asked Cliff to check them periodically.  He isn't the one who is used to bothering with the cows, so he wouldn't have thought of it, but would have gladly looked at them a couple of times a day.  Another factor in those deaths is that we had moved to the old house; both animals would have been in plain view from our living room window back at the trailer house.  

It's water under the bridge, and the child has been such a blessing to us.  We smile all the time she's here.  

We should be back at the trailer house by the end of this month.  

In the garden, my potatoes are up, onions are doing well, and I'm just waiting for the corn and beans to break through the ground.  I've planted all the tomatoes I intend to except for two that are supposed to arrive via UPS tomorrow.  

Cliff has put off building me a pen for the chickens for a long time.  He says he kept hoping I would get tired of them.  No such luck!  So one day last week his brother, Phil, came and helped him build the pen.  

  As you can see, it was a cool, dreary day.  

I let the chickens out to roam the place around 3:30 every afternoon, if I'm home.  They enjoy it so much!  I'm afraid to let them go free all the time because of foxes and hawks, but my grandma always let hers out in the evenings and didn't seem to have problems.  

The strawberries are the reason I needed a pen:  they are in full bloom.  Chickens like strawberries, and I needed a way to turn them out without their getting into my garden and eating my produce.  So during strawberry time, they will be confined to their yard.  It's nice to let them out in their yard each morning, too, so they aren't just confined to four walls.  Happy chickens are fun to watch.  

Warm weather is with us at last, and I caught myself thinking a while ago, "It's almost too hot!"  

Then I thought about the long, bitter-cold winter we've had and decided anything below 100 degrees is just right.  

7 comments:

Margaret said...

Glad that you're getting stuff planted and that the weather is warmer. We had a very hot patch and now are having torrential rains. What kind of tomatoes did you plant? I have 2 early girls, 1 roma and 2 Sweet 100s(cherry). I'm hoping to have as much success with them this summer as I did last. My parents are longing for some homegrown tomatoes. (every time I say that I remember my husband singing that John Denver song!)

TARYTERRE said...

You are right babies consume most of your time when caring for them. Glad you haven't had to give up your garden or the cows, though.

I'm mostly known as 'MA' said...

After seeing your posts so regular over the years, it does seem strange not hearing anything for so long. Good to know it's all for a good reason though and that all is well at your house!

Barbara In Caneyhead said...

Babies are absorbing. You can never watch them enough, hear them enough, smell them enough or kiss them enough. All that really matters is that you are enjoying life.

ADB said...

Pleased everything is doing fine down your way, and a distraction is no bad thing. Hope it says pleasantly warm for you.

krueth said...

Gosh, I have missed your posts and yet I know how much time it takes watching a baby or children, I have a daycare so that keeps me busy too :-)
I am jealous that your garden Is coming up, the last of my plow lines have just melted and I was finally able to yesterday get out and start raking in my yard, so my garden area sits pretty cold yet and not tilled up yet at all. We used to have chickens but let them go, I was not that ambitious to keep up with them. ha! Enjoy that baby girl, they grow up so fast. Wendy

Lori said...

Haha! I know what you mean. I told Thomas that It would have to be late July or August before I will allow myself to even think of complaining about the heat.